# School fees Last updated: 2026-11-12 GUIDE • CHILDREN ARRANGEMENT SOLICITORS # School fees For many families, keeping children at the same school through a separation is a priority, providing continuity at a time of significant change. Where children attend a fee-paying school, the question of who will pay, and whether the family can still afford it, is often one of the most important issues to resolve. This guide explains how school fees are dealt with on separation and divorce, and what happens when parents disagree. Written by Nicola Jones - Partner, Divorce and Family - Last reviewed 13th October 2026 KEY POINTS - Child maintenance calculated by the Child Maintenance Service does not cover private school fees.  - The court can make a school fees order as part of a financial settlement, or for unmarried parents under Schedule 1 to the Children Act 1989.  - Who pays depends on each parent's means and the arrangements in place before separation.  - Where parents disagree about schooling, the court can decide which school a child should attend.  - VAT on school fees since January 2025 has led many families to review their arrangements.  --- ### Are school fees covered by child maintenance?  No. Child maintenance calculated by the Child Maintenance Service covers a child's everyday costs, but [it does not include private school fees](https://www.thrings.com/blog/managing-school-fees-and-university-costs-after-separation). These must be agreed separately between the parents or decided by the court. On divorce, the court can include a school fees order in the financial settlement, requiring one or both parents to pay the fees, and often the extras on the school bill, such as uniforms, trips and music lessons. The court has this power even where child maintenance is otherwise dealt with by the Child Maintenance Service. ### How does the court decide who pays?  The court will look at each parent's income, capital and other commitments, alongside the overall financial settlement. It will also consider the arrangements before the separation: if the children have been privately educated and both parents supported this, the court is more likely to try to preserve that continuity, provided the family can realistically afford it. Fees may be paid by one parent alone or shared, sometimes in proportion to income. Where affordability is uncertain, the order may be limited, for example to a particular stage of education. ### What if we disagree about private schooling?  Choosing a child's school is a major decision that should be agreed between everyone with parental responsibility. If parents cannot agree, whether about private or state education or a particular school, either can apply to court for a specific issue order. The court will decide based on the child's welfare, taking into account their needs, wishes and current schooling, as well as whether the fees can realistically be funded. It is unlikely to order a child to attend a private school if there is no adequate means of paying for it.  If you need advice about school fees or your child's education, please speak to one of our family solicitors in confidence. ### How long do school fees orders last? A school fees order usually continues until the child finishes secondary education, although it can be limited to a particular school or stage. Child maintenance through the Child Maintenance Service ends when a child leaves full-time secondary education, so it does not cover university. However, the court can order financial support for a child in further education, and parents may agree contributions to university costs as part of a wider settlement. These arrangements are best set out clearly in the order to avoid later disputes. ### What about VAT on school fees and rising costs?  Since 1 January 2025, VAT at 20% has applied to private school fees, significantly increasing costs for many families. Fees also typically rise each year. Where a school fees order was made before VAT was introduced, a parent who can no longer afford the fees should first try to agree a revised arrangement with the other parent. If that is not possible, it may be necessary to ask the court to vary the order or, if a change of school is proposed, to apply for a specific issue order. Any new settlement should build in allowances for future fee increases. ### What if we were never married?  Unmarried parents cannot apply for a financial settlement on divorce, but they can apply for financial provision for their children under Schedule 1 to the Children Act 1989. This can include an order for school fees, as well as lump sums and housing provision for the benefit of the child. The court considers similar factors, including each parent's resources and the child's needs. ### Common questions #### What happens to the children in a divorce? The divorce itself doesn’t decide arrangements for the children. Most parents agree where the children will live and how they will spend time with each parent, and the court only becomes involved if they can’t agree. #### What can I do about parental alienation? If you believe your child is being turned against you, take advice early. The court can investigate, often with Cafcass or an expert, and make orders to protect the child’s relationship with both parents where that is in their best interests. #### Can my ex move away with our children? Within the UK, a parent can generally move with the children unless a court order prevents it, though you can apply to court to stop the move. To move abroad, they need the consent of everyone with parental responsibility or the court’s permission. #### Can I stop the other parent taking our child abroad? Yes. A prohibited steps order can prevent a child being taken abroad without your agreement or the court’s permission, and where there is an immediate risk of abduction, urgent steps can be taken through the court and the police. #### What rights do fathers have after separation? A father with parental responsibility has the same say as the mother in major decisions about the child. There’s no automatic right to equal time, but the court starts from the position that a child benefits from both parents being involved, unless that would put the child at risk. #### What rights do mothers have after separation? A mother automatically has parental responsibility, giving her a say in all major decisions about her child. After separation, she has the same standing as a father who also has parental responsibility, and neither parent is automatically favoured. #### Does the mother automatically get custody? No. The law doesn’t favour either parent, and “custody” has been replaced by child arrangements. Where the children live is decided by agreement or, if necessary, by the court, based on what is best for them. #### What is Cafcass, and what does it do? Cafcass is the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service, which represents children’s interests in family court cases in England. 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